Je suis actif dans la grand aventure de la digitalisation depuis 2006, j'ai participé à la réalisation de nombreux projets digitaux soit en tant que consultant UX designer, business analyste ou encore chef de projet.
Pourquoi Suivre l’actualité vous empêche de penser?
Pourquoi le débat block life matter gauche droite sur les conflit sociale aux usa est stérile?
Pourquoi l’actualité sur le covid19 est anxiogène et sétrile elle aussi?
Je n’essayant rien de justifier l’inacceptable mais simplement de relativiser les faits au regard de la réalité
Voilà si vous sentez en colère contre l’injustice c’est tout à fait légitime.
Mais ce n’est pas en participant à des émeutes ou en suivant les médias « avec vos tripes » que vous allez changer quoi que ce soit.
Vous êtes un peu comme un surfeur qui essaierait de se battre contre les vagues vous ne pouvait pas contrôler les vagues.
C’est-à-dire les médias seuls les gens qui sont aux manettes peuvent définir ce qu’ils veulent bien que vous sachiez ce qu’ils veulent bien que vous ne sachiez pas
Un fait divers comme la mort de George Floyd
Aurait très bien pu passer inaperçu parce que les propriétaires des médias en aurait jugé ainsi
Beaucoup de faits passe inaperçu et ne sont pas relaté par les médias
Vous me direz oui bien sûr mais maintenant il y a Internet les gens peuvent parler je vous dirais oui et non
C’est vrai que les médias sont maintenant concurrencé par une forme de médias décentralisée plus horizontal, l’internet
Même chose pour Facebook Google Netflix ils sont contrôlés par 4 personnes.
Pourrions reparler dans un autre article c’est ce qui a sans doute permis le Brexit des anglais et précipité l’élection de Trump.
Ne soyons pas naïfs non plus Trump possède CNBC, ce qui représente à la louche 15 % des médias aux Etats-Unis.
Un petit schéma ici explicatif vaut mieux qu’un long discours
Je vous explique pourquoi ça ne sert où se positionner dans ce débat de gauche ou de droite
Et de suivre un conflit perpétrés par une masse hébété parce que c’est ce qui se passe en ce moment.
Vous me direz c’est normal les médias utilise la peur et la négativité pour vendre oui c’est une explication.
Mais elle n’est pas suffisante.
Dans cet article je ne vais pas essayer de rentrer dans les théories conspirationistes , complotiste.
Oui vous savez ce qui propage des fake News.
Essayer de debuncker les hoax du nouvel ordre mondial ou même de debunker les debunkeur de pacotillesc,
ça m’a intéressé tout un temps par curiosité intelectuel mais aujourd’hui ça ne m’intéresse plus, alors là plus du tout.
Nous avons un temps limité sur terre et si vous voulez avoir une vie de merde continuez comme ça c’est parfait vous serez un lose heures où est RMI qui connaît tout sur tout sur les dernières conspiration à la mode, yeah la win.
C’est une quête stérile aussi stérile que le débat entre la droite et la gauche.
Putain les gars il est temps d’éteindre le poste gagner de la My aller acheter des grosses caisses baiser des putes et faire des voyages en jet privé bordel
Naahh
Je déconne.
Par compte oui il est temps de se déconnecter et de penser à quelle vie vous voulez vraiment vivre ici bas .
Résumant la situation , vous avez aux Etats-Unis quelques grands groupes qui possède tous les médias qui sont dans les mains de quelques personnes une dizaine Tutto plus
Vous pouvez ergoter dire que je suis conspirations liste c’est en fait je ne vais pas essayer de sur analyser le pourquoi du comment
À partir de ça vous pouvez considérer que vous avez quelques personnes qui sont aux manettes dans le grand machine à hologramme
Cela à vous à savoir si vous voulez être dedans ou en dehors
Si vous restez dedans que pouvez-vous faire pour changer la situation
Je sais ce qui s’est passé aux Etats-Unis c’est horrible la mort tragique George Floyd suite son arrestation par des policiers
Devinez quoi tous les jours des Américains sont arrêtés par des policiers qu’il soit blanc ou noir et parfois certains meurent
Qu’il soit blanc ou noir
Tous les jours 70 personnes meurt tu es par mal aux Etats-Unis qu’il soit blanc noir
Dans 90% des cas, c’est des noirs qui tuent des noirs, des latinos qui tuent des latinos et des blancs qui tuent des blancs
Oui effectivement parfois des blancs tuent des noirs et des noirs tuent des blancs
Objective: Set 1 goal for an area in your life in which you want to see improvement in the foreseeable future (ex: in the area of Health, Finances, Relationships, Career, etc.)
My Goal Is:
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MOTIVATION MECHANICS
Objective: Write down 3-5 reasons why you want to be motivated in the first place
I Want To Be Motivated Because…
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THE 15 MINUTE EXERCISE
Remember: Action –> Momentum –> Motivation
Objective: Pick 1 task that you know you SHOULD be working on. Set a timer for 15 minutes, and work on this task for 15 minutes (full focus, remove all possible distractions)
Don’t put it off! Do it now!
My 1 Task To Work At Least 15 Minutes On Is:
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EXTERNAL MOTIVATION: BOOKS
What Book Do You Find Inspiring?
Objective: Read This Book For 15 Minutes
What Podcast/Audiobook Do You Find Inspiring?
Objective: Listen To This Next Time During Your Commute
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Keep some of your most inspiring books in your work-space. Merely seeing them has the potential to instantly motivate you.
Schedule a daily 15-minute fixed block of
reading time to make this a strong habit.
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EXTERNAL MOTIVATION: VIDEO
How many hours do you watch video-based content per day on average?
How much of this is purely for entertainment?
If this number is over 1 hour per day, you need to remind yourself of the fact that it’s probably not in line with the person you want to become. Would a successful person who’s totally crushing it watch entertaining content for more than 1 hour per day? – I bet you know the answer!
Objective: Find the balance between Entertainment & Inspiration/Education
Courses
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Motivational Videos
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EXTERNAL MOTIVATION: MUSIC
Music can be one of the external ways to instantly trigger a state change. Listening to a motivating song / type of music can get us from a lousy state to a peak state, in which we are a lot more productive.
Objective: Write down what song/type of music you’re going to listen to when you need a boost of motivation:
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EXTERNAL MOTIVATION: SOCIAL CIRCLE
Objective: List up to 5 people (left column) in your close social circle, who have a positive, empowering and motivating influence on you.
Objective: List up to 5 people (right column) in your close social circle, who have a negative, disempowering or demotivating influence on you (this can be very subtle).
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Action Point: Resolve to spend more time with the people in the left column (the winners) and less time with people in the right column.
“If you want more out of life, you’ve got to surround yourself with people who want more out of life as well.”
– Jari Roomer
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EXTERNAL MOTIVATION: ACCOUNTABILITY PARTNER
Objective: Out of the 5 people that have a positive, empowering and motivating influence on you, pick 1 or more of those friends to become your accountability partner(s).
My Accountability Partner(s) Can/Will Be:
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Action Point: Get in touch with your potential accountability partner(s) and explain the concept.
Action Point: Agree on a challenge/goal for which this person will hold you accountable.
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EXTERNAL MOTIVATION: MASTERMIND
Objective: Create a mastermind with at least 2 of the “winners” from the ‘social circle’ exercise.
My (Potential) Mastermind Members Will Be:
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Action Point: Get in touch with these people and explain the concept to them.
Action Point: Decide on the format and the times you’ll meet (online or offline).
Action Point: Plan the first session.
Pro-Tip: Create a WhatsApp group (or other messenger) for your Mastermind. During the week, the Mastermind members can send topics to each other, that they’d like to discuss during the next session.
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EXTERNAL MOTIVATION: YOUR SURROUNDINGS
Exercise: Write down your goals on a piece of paper and put them on your desk, wall or other surroundings.
Done
Exercise: Write down inspiring/motivating quotes on pieces of paper and put these on your desk, wall or other surroundings.
Done
Exercise: Hang inspiring images of your dream life, inspiring individuals and goal- reminders on your wall, desk or other surroundings.
Done
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EXTERNAL MOTIVATION: SEPARATE WORK PLACE
Exercise: Pick out at least 1 place that you use just for focused work (your office, home office, coffee place, library, etc.)
I Will Dedicate Theses Places To Focused Work:
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INTERNAL MINDSET: PAIN VS PLEASURE
Exercise: Pick out up to 4 tasks that you have been procrastinating on.
Per task, make a list of all the negative (painful) effects that NOT COMPLETING this task will have on your life. (see next page)
Then, make a list of all the positive (pleasurable) effects that COMPLETING this task will have on your life. (see next page)
The Tasks I’ve Been Procrastinating On Are:
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INTERNAL MINDSET: PAIN VS PLEASURE PT.2
Task 1
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Pleasure
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Task 2
Pain
Pleasure
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Task 3
Pain
Pleasure
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Pleasure
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INTERNAL MINDSET: FEAR-SETTING EXERCISE
Use this technique whenever you want to take a big step or attempt something that you’re fearful of.
1. What if… Step 1: Define
What are the worst things that can happen?
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INTERNAL MINDSET: FEAR-SETTING EXERCISE
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What could I do to prevent this from happening – or decrease the likelihood?
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What if… Step 3: RepairIf the worst case happened – How could I repair it or who could I ask for help? 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9. 10. 19INTERNAL MINDSET: FEAR-SETTING EXERCISE
What If It Succeeds… What might be the benefits of an attempt or partial success? 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9. 10. 20INTERNAL MINDSET: FEAR-SETTING EXERCISE
Define the cost of inaction (emotionally, physically, financially, etc)
What will my life look like in 6 months, 1 year, and 3 years from now, if I don’t take action?
6 Months From Now:
1 Year From Now:
3 Years From Now:
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INTERNAL MINDSET: THE ROCKING CHAIR TEST
Imagine yourself at 90 years old, sitting in your rocking chair, looking back on your life. Think about the goals, plans, dreams, and vision that your younger self had (your present self – the one that’s following this course right now).
Now visualize yourself pushing through every single time. See yourself push through all the hard days of work, all the tough decisions. See yourself making it happen and really living the life that you envisioned. What did your life look like? How does it make you feel? Hone in on that feeling, really experience it as if it was real.
Now visualize yourself NOT pushing through, not following up on the actions you should take, having fear prevent you from taking important steps, procrastinating, focusing on the short- term pleasure and disregarded the long-term loss or gain. See yourself settling in life and selling yourself short. What did your life look like? How does it make you feel? Hone in on that feeling, really experience it as if it was real. Your life can look like the first or the second visualization. The beautiful thing here is that: You Are In Control… You decide.Use the pain of regret from this exercise to put your life into perspective and fuel yourself with motivation from the inside. 22INTERNAL MINDSET: GRATITUDE Exercise: Whenever you are going to attempt something that makes you fearful or anxious, focus on things that you could be grateful for within that moment. Fear disappears when you’re grateful. I Am Grateful For: Exercise: Start a Gratitude Journal
Every morning write down 3 things that you are grateful for.
Really think about why you are grateful for these things.
Experience the joy that these 3 things bring you.
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INTERNAL MINDSET: THE 6 HUMAN NEEDS
Exercise: Rate the 6 Basic Human Needs. How much value do you, at this point in time, place on the particular human needs. Rate each of them on a scale of 1-10.
Knowing what ALREADY drives you as a human being is a very powerful intrinsic motivater. Use this information to your advantage.
Human Needs Rating (1-10)
Certainty/Comfort
Uncertainty/Variety
Significance
Love & Connection
Growth
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INTERNAL MINDSET: THE 6 HUMAN NEEDS PT.2
Exercise: Think of 1 activity that you love to do. How many of the 6 Basic Human Needs are met and to what extend?
1 Activity I Love Is:
It Meets The Following Human Needs:
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Certainty/Comfort
Uncertainty/Variety
Significance
Love & Connection
Growth
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INTERNAL MINDSET: THE 6 HUMAN NEEDS PT.2
Exercise: Think of 1 activity that you strongly dislike to do. How many of the 6 Basic Human Needs are met and to what extend?
1 Activity I Strongly Dislike Is:
It Meets (or lacks) The Following Human Needs:
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Uncertainty/Variety
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Love & Connection
Growth
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INTERNAL MINDSET: THE 6 HUMAN NEEDS PT.3
Exercise: What 3 activities do you dislike, but are very important for your overall growth – and have the potential to massively improve your life (for example: working out, hard work, eating healthy, waking up early, etc.)
These 3 Activities Are:
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INTERNAL MINDSET: THE 6 HUMAN NEEDS PT.3
Exercise: Per activity, ask yourself the following question: ‘What can I change about my Belief about this Human Need and/or what Variables can I change within the activity so that this activity meets my needs better than before?’
Activity 1: I Can Change The Following Beliefs/Variables…
If I Do This, It Will Improve The Following Needs:
Certainty/Comfort
Uncertainty/Variety
Significance
Love & Connection
Growth
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INTERNAL MINDSET: THE 6 HUMAN NEEDS PT.3
Exercise: Per activity, ask yourself the following question: ‘What can I change about my Belief about this Human Need and/or what Variables can I change within the activity so that this activity meets my needs better than before?’
Activity 2: I Can Change The Following Beliefs/Variables…
If I Do This, It Will Improve The Following Needs:
Certainty/Comfort
Uncertainty/Variety
Significance
Love & Connection
Growth
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INTERNAL MINDSET: THE 6 HUMAN NEEDS PT.3
Exercise: Per activity, ask yourself the following question: ‘What can I change about my Belief about this Human Need and/or what Variables can I change within the activity so that this activity meets my needs better than before?’
Activity 3: I Can Change The Following Beliefs/Variables…
If I Do This, It Will Improve The Following Needs:
Certainty/Comfort
Uncertainty/Variety
Significance
Love & Connection
Growth
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INTERNAL MOTIVATION: GOAL-SETTING 2.0
Goal-Setting Guidelines
Make it very specific; so that you can measure your progress
Add a deadline to your goals; in this case in 12 months from now
State the goal in positive terms; do not use any negative words in your goal statement.
‘I enjoy eating healthy, low-calorie, nutritious foods” by dd/mm/yyyy’ Instead of ‘I have stopped eating sugar, candy, ice cream, and other fattening foods by dd/mm/yyyy’
Write it down as if you have already achieved it:
‘I have lost 12 pounds by ‘dd/mm/yyyy’ Instead of ‘I want to lose 12 pounds’
Review your goals on a daily basis; preferably in the morning Example goal: “I have earned $20.000 dollars in sales from ‘Product A’ by 01/08/2019” 31 INTERNAL MOTIVATION: GOAL-SETTING 2.0 Yearly GoalsExercise: Write down 1 – 7 goals that you want to achieve in the next 12 months.
32INTERNAL MOTIVATION: GOAL-SETTING 2.0 Monthly GoalsExercise: Set 1-7 monthly goals (for the next 30 days) that help you to achieve your yearly goals.
33INTERNAL MOTIVATION: GOAL-SETTING 2.0 Weekly GoalsExercise: Set 1-7 weekly goals that help you to achieve your monthly goals.
34INTERNAL MOTIVATION: CREATING LEVERAGE Exercise: Per yearly goal, write down as many reasons ‘Why’ you want to achieve it (the pleasure you’ll gain from achieving) AND what’ll happen if you don’t achieve this goal (the pain you’ll experience). Goal 1: PainPleasure 35INTERNAL MOTIVATION: CREATING LEVERAGE Exercise: Per yearly goal, write down as many reasons ‘Why’ you want to achieve it (the pleasure you’ll gain from achieving) AND what’ll happen if you don’t achieve this goal (the pain you’ll experience). Goal 2: PainPleasure 36INTERNAL MOTIVATION: CREATING LEVERAGE Exercise: Per yearly goal, write down as many reasons ‘Why’ you want to achieve it (the pleasure you’ll gain from achieving) AND what’ll happen if you don’t achieve this goal (the pain you’ll experience). Goal 3: PainPleasure 37INTERNAL MOTIVATION: CREATING LEVERAGE Exercise: Per yearly goal, write down as many reasons ‘Why’ you want to achieve it (the pleasure you’ll gain from achieving) AND what’ll happen if you don’t achieve this goal (the pain you’ll experience). Goal 4: PainPleasure 38INTERNAL MOTIVATION: CREATING LEVERAGE Exercise: Per yearly goal, write down as many reasons ‘Why’ you want to achieve it (the pleasure you’ll gain from achieving) AND what’ll happen if you don’t achieve this goal (the pain you’ll experience). Goal 5: PainPleasure 39INTERNAL MOTIVATION: CREATING LEVERAGE Exercise: Per yearly goal, write down as many reasons ‘Why’ you want to achieve it’ (the pleasure you’ll gain from achieving) AND what’ll happen if you don’t achieve this goal (the pain you’ll experience). Goal 6: PainPleasure 40INTERNAL MOTIVATION: CREATING LEVERAGE Exercise: Per yearly goal, write down as many reasons ‘Why’ you want to achieve it (the pleasure you’ll gain from achieving) AND what’ll happen if you don’t achieve this goal (the pain you’ll experience). Goal 7: PainPleasure 41INTERNAL MOTIVATION: YOUR PURPOSE Humans are happiest when they’re working towards something. When they have a sense of purpose. Knowing your ‘why’ will help to turn your work from drudgery to a victory. Without a why, it will take superhuman effort just to keep up the inspiration and motivation to make all the right choices necessary to own the day.”- Aubrey Marcus, Author & CEO of Onnit Your purpose is your REASON for being here.Finding meaning in serving a particular purpose is the singlemost powerful motivator (by a mile). You’re here to provide something unique – something only you can do with your unique characteristics, in your unique way.
So what do you want to do? What does your best self want more than anything else? 42INTERNAL MOTIVATION: YOUR PURPOSE
The ‘Why Exercise’ Take the answer from the previous question. Now ask yourself: ‘Why do I actually want this?’ – Then look at that answer and again ask yourself that same question. Keep asking yourself: ‘Why do I actually want this?’ until you uncover a deeper meaning, a deeper why. 1st Why: 2nd Why: 3rd Why: 43INTERNAL MOTIVATION: YOUR PURPOSE 4th Why: 5th Why: 44INTERNAL MOTIVATION: YOUR PURPOSE
The Common DenominatorYou can uncover your purpose by looking for the ‘common denominator in your most joyful/memorable experiences.’ There’s a reason why you experience such joy during specific activities. They’re in line with something that’s bigger than you, something that makes you feel alive. Think of 3 specific times in your life or 3 specific experiences you’ve had in your life, in which you felt most alive, excited or happy. Experience / Time 1: Experience / Time 2: Experience / Time 3: 45INTERNAL MOTIVATION: YOUR PURPOSE What is the common denominator in these 3 experiences? What aspects, concepts, feelings were the same in all of them? What are these experience really all about? 46INTERNAL MOTIVATION: YOUR PURPOSE
The 10 Questions to Uncover Your ‘Why’
What Do You Stand For?
Who do you look up to as leaders, role models, mentors?
If money were no object, how would you live your life differently?
If you had to teach something in front of 100 people, what would it be?
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INTERNAL MOTIVATION: YOUR PURPOSE
The 10 Questions to Uncover Your ‘Why’
If you unexpectedly had a free week off, what would you do?
What are some challenges and hardships in your past that you’ve overcome? How did you do it? Why did you do to get through it and not give up?
Who do you want to help?
What would be the result?
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INTERNAL MOTIVATION: YOUR PURPOSE
4. The 10 Questions to Uncover Your ‘Why’
What real value will you create?
If you were to die tomorrow, would you be happy with the life you’ve lived? If not, what can you do to make a difference and be remembered?
Source: The Dating Playbook for Men by Andrew Ferebee
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INTERNAL MOTIVATION: YOUR PURPOSE
5. Decide what the purpose of your life is, at least for right now.
My Life’s Purpose Is:
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INTERNAL MOTIVATION: MANTRA
Exercise: Write down a phrase, a quote or a combination of words that you resonate with, which you can use whenever times get tough, you need a boost of motivation or are in a high-pressure situation.
Say it to yourself out loud multiple times a day. My Mantra Is:
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INTERNAL MOTIVATION: BELIEF SYSTEMS
Exercise: Write down 3 – 5 empowering beliefs that you currently have about yourself and about what you believe you can achieve in this world
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INTERNAL MOTIVATION: BELIEF SYSTEMS
Exercise: Write down 3 – 5 dis-empowering beliefs that hold you back from achieving the results you desire (whether about yourself or the external world).
Tip: To find these beliefs, go over your goals and analyze the first thoughts you have about those goals. What’s the inner voice telling you?
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INTERNAL MOTIVATION: BELIEF SYSTEMS
Exercise: Answer the following 5 questions for dis-empowering belief system #1
Q1: How is this belief ridiculous or absurd?
Q2: What will it ultimately cost me emotionally if I don’t let go of this belief?
Q3: What will it ultimately cost me in my relationships (family, friends, loved ones) if I don’t let go of this belief?
Q4: What will it ultimately cost me physically if I don’t let go of this belief?
Q5: What will it ultimately cost me financially if I don’t let go of this belief?
Source: Awaken The Giant Within – Anthony Robbins
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INTERNAL MOTIVATION: BELIEF SYSTEMS
Exercise: Answer the following 5 questions for dis-empowering belief system #2
Q1: How is this belief ridiculous or absurd?
Q2: What will it ultimately cost me emotionally if I don’t let go of this belief?
Q3: What will it ultimately cost me in my relationships (family, friends, loved ones) if I don’t let go of this belief?
Q4: What will it ultimately cost me physically if I don’t let go of this belief?
Q5: What will it ultimately cost me financially if I don’t let go of this belief?
Source: Awaken The Giant Within – Anthony Robbins
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INTERNAL MOTIVATION: BELIEF SYSTEMS
Exercise: Answer the following 5 questions for dis-empowering belief system #3
Q1: How is this belief ridiculous or absurd?
Q2: What will it ultimately cost me emotionally if I don’t let go of this belief?
Q3: What will it ultimately cost me in my relationships (family, friends, loved ones) if I don’t let go of this belief?
Q4: What will it ultimately cost me physically if I don’t let go of this belief?
Q5: What will it ultimately cost me financially if I don’t let go of this belief?
Source: Awaken The Giant Within – Anthony Robbins
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INTERNAL MOTIVATION: BELIEF SYSTEMS
Exercise: Answer the following 5 questions for dis-empowering belief system #4
Q1: How is this belief ridiculous or absurd?
Q2: What will it ultimately cost me emotionally if I don’t let go of this belief?
Q3: What will it ultimately cost me in my relationships (family, friends, loved ones) if I don’t let go of this belief?
Q4: What will it ultimately cost me physically if I don’t let go of this belief?
Q5: What will it ultimately cost me financially if I don’t let go of this belief?
Source: Awaken The Giant Within – Anthony Robbins
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INTERNAL MOTIVATION: BELIEF SYSTEMS
Exercise: Answer the following 5 questions for dis-empowering belief system #5
Q1: How is this belief ridiculous or absurd?
Q2: What will it ultimately cost me emotionally if I don’t let go of this belief?
Q3: What will it ultimately cost me in my relationships (family, friends, loved ones) if I don’t let go of this belief?
Q4: What will it ultimately cost me physically if I don’t let go of this belief?
Q5: What will it ultimately cost me financially if I don’t let go of this belief?
Source: Awaken The Giant Within – Anthony Robbins
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INTERNAL MOTIVATION: BELIEF SYSTEMS
Exercise: We can’t get rid of a belief without replacing it with a new one. So right now, write down the replacement for the limiting beliefs you’ve just eliminated.
Old Beliefs
New Beliefs
For example, “Managing my personal finances is really hard to do.” Your new belief might be, “Managing my personal finances is a straightforward practice that is learnable and if I spent some time acquiring the right skill-set and setting up my financial systems it will set me up for financial success.”
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INTERNAL MOTIVATION: HABIT MECHANICS
The Habit Process:
Day 1 – 3:
First Rush of Excitement (Because it’s new).
Day 3 – 10:
Very hard to follow through with the habit.
Day 10 – 20:
Still uncomfortable and you really have to push yourself to do it.
Day 20 – 30:
You start to get used to it and doing the habit will become an internal part of your system.
Day 30+:
Unstoppable. The habit is now a fully automatic and internal part of your lifestyle.
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INTERNAL MOTIVATION: THE HABIT LOOP
Exercise: Write down what 1-3 habits you need to adopt in order to achieve your goal.
Habit:
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Routine: Reward:
Accountability Partner:
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INTERNAL MOTIVATION: MORNING ROUTINE
Morning Habit #1: Affirmations
Exercise: Make your own personal affirmation by combining the elements underneath. Write it down on a single piece of paper, which you carry with you in your wallet or in your pocket. Refer to it as many times per day as you’d like, but read it at least 1x in your morning routine.
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Your Yearly Goals
The reasons why you want to achieve them (pain of not achieving them, pleasure of achieving them)
Your Purpose
Your Mantra
Quotes that inspire you
Anything else that you want to remind yourself of daily that can spark motivation 62 INTERNAL MOTIVATION: MORNING ROUTINE My Personal Affirmation
63INTERNAL MOTIVATION: MORNING ROUTINE Morning Habit #2: Visualization Exercise: Each morning, perform the 3-phase visualization or listen to the guided visualization added to the course. Morning Habit #3: Journaling Exercise: Try out some (or all) of the underneath variations of journaling as part of your morning routine. Journaling Variations:
Mission: Write down & elaborate on your Why/Purpose/Mission
Daily Objectives: Write down the 3 main objectives for this upcoming day
Free Writing: Write down anything that’s on your mind
Gratitude Journaling: Write down 3 things you are grateful for (for example: 1 personal trait, 1 person, 1 very small thing) 64INTERNAL MOTIVATION: MORNING ROUTINE Exercise: Develop The ‘Morning Routine’ Habit The Habit Loop (Cue –> Routine –> Reward)Cue: Set your alarm 30 minutes earlier than you’d normally wake up & get out of bed immediately (no snoozing!) Routine: Do all or some of the following activities for a few minutes each
Affirmations
Visualization
Journaling
Reading
Reward: The feeling of extra clarity, positivity, inspiration, calm, confidence and motivation. All in all, the right start of your day.
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INTERNAL MOTIVATION: HEALTH/ENERGY
Q: How many hours of sleep do I need per night to feel good during my day?
Exercise: Schedule this amount in your upcoming week – Determine your bedtime & your wake time.
Sleep Tips:
Tip 1: Cool Down Your Room
Get your bedroom to 15.5 – 20.0 degrees Celsius (60 – 68 degrees Fahrenheit). This is the best temperature for your body to sleep in.
Tip 2: Black Out Your Room
Make sure your room is as dark as possible. Having light sources of any type in your bedroom can disrupt your sleep pattern. If there’s light in the room, your body picks up on it and signals it to your brain and organs, which can interfere with your sleep.
Pro Tip: Get blackout curtains
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Tip 3: Put Away All Screens 60-90 Mins Before Bed The artificial blue light emitted by electronic screens triggers your body to produce more daytime hormones (such as cortisol) and disorients your body’s natural preparation for sleep. Put away all screens 60-90 min before you go to bed in order to allow melatonin and cortisol levels to normalize.
Tip 4: Have A Consistent Sleep Pattern
Go to bed at around the same time each night – Within a 30 min window
Get up at around the same time each morning – Within a 30 min window
Exercise: Every Sunday, schedule your next work-week. Look at your ‘Weekly List’ for the upcoming week and allocate blocks of time in your week in which you will work on the specific tasks that are on your weekly list.
Exercise: Every day, check and re-schedule (if necessary) your next workday.
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Exercise: Each day, look at your ‘Daily List’ and prioritize according to the ABCDE Method. (see next page)
A: Your most important tasks – Biggest upside if completed, biggest downside if not completed. Complete these tasks every single day!
B: Important tasks – Some upside if completed, some downside if not.
C: Neutral tasks – No effect if completed or not completed. D: Delegate – Someone else can do this better, cheaper or faster.
E: Eliminate – Remove this task from the to-do list.
Ps. It’s possible to have multiple A tasks, B tasks, etc. In this case, the most important task will be indicated with a ‘1’, the second most important with a ‘2’ and the third most important with a ‘3’.
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Exercise: Ask yourself at least once a week ‘Am I really taking the action that I know I SHOULD be taking?’
You need real-world feedback in order to crush your fears, make accurate adjustments, and take your personal growth and results to the next level – the only way to get real-world feedback is by taking real action.
Basic Thai greetings are hands down the most important of phrases visitors will want to memorise before journeying to the Land of Smiles. Speaking of smiles, those who can say these words are almost guaranteed to receive a smile in return to everyone they greet with them. The small effort it takes from travellers to memorise basic greetings goes a long way in the eyes of the locals in Thailand. Here are some of the most basic of phrases worth remembering.
Hello = Sawatdii
How are you? = Sabaaidii mai?
I’m fine = Sabaaidii
I’m not well = Mai sabaii
I come from (America) = Pom/Chan maa jaak (ameerigaa)
What country are you from? = Kun maa jaak bprateet arai?
Thank you = Khop kun
Sorry = Khot hort
No problem = Mai bpenrai
Goodbye = Bai
Can you speak English? = Kun pood paasaa anggrit dai mai
Conversing in Thai is confusing. The public transportation in Thailand is complicated. Thai menus are befuddling. Regardless of what it is that has you puzzled, you are going to need to know a few question words to clarify, well, everything.
Where? = Tiinai?
What? = Arai?
When? = Muarai?
How? = Yangngai?
Why? = Tum mai?
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How you address people in Thailand is very important. People are addressed differently based on things like age and social rank. Addressing someone using the incorrect term can be oftentimes considered disrespectful. For example, addressing someone older than you with a title that is used for someone younger than you can be considered offensive to some. Here are the basic titles worth remembering so that this does not happen.
I (female) = Chán
I (male) = Pŏm
You = Kun
He/She/They = Kao
Female/Male (junior) = Nong
Female/Male (senior) = Pee
Basic Thai phrases for directions (taxis, buses, airport, etc.)
From Bangkok, the most congested city in the world, to island hopping in the south of Thailand, visitors are going to be utilising more than a handful of forms of public transportation. Here, some helpful phrases to get you from point A to point B.
Speak slowly = Puut chaa chaa noi
Do you use the meter? = Chai meter mai (Be sure taxi drivers use the meter in Bangkok!)
Nearby = Glai glai
Go straight = Dtrong bpai
Go left = Leo saai
Go right = Leo kwaa
Stop = Yut
Go to the airport = Bpai sanam bin
Station = Sataanii
Bus stop = Bpaai rot mee
Bus = Rot mee
Skytrain = Rodfai faa
Subway = Rodfai dtaaidin
Airplane = Kruang bin
Minibus = Rot dtuu
Car = Rot
Bicycle = Jakgrayaan
Motorcycle = Moodteesai
Boat = Rua
Basic Thai phrases for shopping
Thailand is home to an abundance of souvenirs worth stowing away in your carry-on for the long flight home. From night markets to luxury malls in the capital, knowing a few words in regards to shopping will prove to be more than a little bit helpful. Also, bartering is a must at stalls and vendors. Some Thai words will help shoppers get a better price. Here, the most useful ones to keep in your back pocket until arriving in the Kingdom.
How much? = Taorai
Very expensive = Paang mak
Can you reduce the price? = Lod noi dai mai
I want this one = Ao annii
Basic Thai numbers
Knowing a handful of numbers will better one’s chances of getting a better price on something. Those who can tell a merchant how much they want something to be will oftentimes get that price. Here, the basic numbers you should know in order to save some baht.
1 = Nung
2 = Song
3 = Sam
4 = See
5 = Haa
6 = Hok
7 = Jet
8 = Bpeet
9 = Gaao
10 = Sip
20 = Yii sip
21 = Yii sip et
22 = Yee sip song
30 = Sam sip
40 = See sip
50 = Haa sip
60 = Hok sip
70 = Jet sip
80 = Bpeet sip
90 = Gaao sip
100 = Nung rooi
500 = Haa rooi
1,000 = Nung pan
Basic Thai phrases for restaurants or cafes
Bangkok’s caffeine scene is becoming more popular and thriving every day. From pet cafes to speciality coffee shops, visitors are going to want to try a cup of joe or two while travelling Thailand. Do not even get us started on Thai cuisine, either. As one of the most popular foodie destinations in the world, knowing these words while dining is a must. From street-side eats to the more luxurious of dining options in the capital, check out the most helpful phrases to utilise while chowing down in the Kingdom.
Restaurant = Raan aahaan
Café = Raan gaafee
Excuse me = koortoot
Bathroom = Hongnaam
What is this? = Annii arai
Hungry = Hiu
May I have the menu = Aow meenuu noi
Vegetarian = Mawng sa vee rat
Vegan = Gin jay
Water = Naam
Beer = Beer (easy, right?)
Chicken = Gai
Rice = Kaao
Cold = Yen
Hot = Rone
No ice = Mai aow nam khang
No sugar = Mai aow nam tan
1 more please = Khor iik nung
I like spicy = Chan/Pom chawp pet
Not spicy = Mai pet
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You take every precaution you could possibly fathom and are ready for your trip to Thailand. There is seemingly nothing that could happen that could derail your trip. All the vaccines and mosquito repellent in the world, however, cannot determine whether an accident may arise. In case one does, here are some phrases that will help during an emergency.
Hurts = Jep
Where is the police station? = Sataanii dtamruat yoo tee nai
Where is the hospital? = Rongpayaabaan yoo tee nai
Call an ambulance = Dahm rot pa-ya-bahn
I’m lost = Long tahng
Can you help = Choo-ay dai mai
Thai phrases for a night out
Thailand is home to some pretty epic nightlfe. From red light districts to nightclubs and more, you are going to want to enjoy a drink (or two) and experience all the country has to offer after the sun goes down. Here are some fun phrases that will come in handy on a night out.